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I am Deepti Sharma . I am a Parenting Coach & Career Counselor. So here is my first blog about why it is necessary to share your experiences and feelings with your children.

 Let's dive deeper into the importance of your story as a parent:

Why Owning Your Story Matters
1. Children learn from what they see: As a parent, you're your child's most significant role model. By owning your story, you show them that it's okay to make mistakes, learn from them, and grow.
2. Authenticity builds trust: When you're genuine and authentic, your children are more likely to trust you and feel comfortable coming to you with their problems.
3. Self-awareness helps you parent better: By understanding your own strengths, weaknesses, and emotions, you'll be better equipped to manage your reactions and respond to your child's needs.
4. You'll become a better role model for resilience: Life is full of ups and downs. By owning your story and showing your children how to navigate challenges, you'll teach them valuable lessons about perseverance and resilience.
How to Own Your Story
1. Practice self-reflection: Regularly take time to reflect on your thoughts, feelings, and actions. Identify areas where you'd like to improve and work on making positive changes.
2. Be vulnerable and honest: Share your struggles and imperfections with your children. This will help them see that everyone makes mistakes and that it's okay not to be perfect.
3. Celebrate your successes: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small they may seem. This will help your children see the value of hard work and perseverance.
4. Seek support when needed: Don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it. This could be from your partner, family, friends, or a professional counselor.
The Benefits for Your Children
1. Increased self-esteem: When you own your story and model self-acceptance, your children are more likely to develop a positive self-image.
2. Improved emotional intelligence: By seeing you navigate emotions and challenges, your children will learn valuable lessons about emotional regulation and empathy.
3. Better coping mechanisms: Your children will learn healthy ways to manage stress and adversity by watching you handle challenges.
4. Stronger parent-child relationships: Owning your story and being authentic will help you build a stronger more meaningful connection with your children.

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